(Closed) Stuck between a rock and a hard place

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
84 posts
Worker bee

@ksenia03:  You should go to counseling.  It’s not too late to save your marriage.  Don’t give up, it can get better.  Divorce should be the LAST option.  There has to be a reason you married him, and my guess is that he hasn’t changed that much in 2 1/2 years.

Post # 4
423 posts
Helper bee

@ksenia03:  Take a long, hard look at your marriage and appraise it as objectively as possible. Do you think it can be saved? You can do an exercise: jot down your entire experience with your husband, your fear of leaving and your concern for your daughter.  Then get a close friend/sister to read it out to you – in her own way, as if this is her problem. You listen to her and then try to give her good advice. Note what you are saying. That should be your advice to yourself. 

Post # 5
313 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2005

You really should go to counseling.  There is no reason you should continue to live this way, it’ll only make you all the more miserable and soon there will be a straw that broke the camels back, you don’t want your daughter in the middle of it.  Now….if I HAD to guess, I wonder if your husband isn’t feeling like he isn’t getting enough attention.  It’s pretty silly but truly it seems like he wants some form of it if he’s in an “I got it worse” competition with you.  There is only so much that you can do and if he’s not going to change when you talk to  him, maybe going to a counselor will help open his eyes.

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