- 4 years ago
- Wedding: September 2008
What I see is a bunch of people trying to impose their beliefs regarding critically important life choices on you. Your parents think you should wait until marriage to live with someone. Your boyfriend thinks that living togther is an important thing to do before marriage. How about you? What do you think?
Think hard about the life you want and go live it. If that means moving in with your boyfriend and pissing off your parents, go do that! If it means staying at home until you marry and pissing off your boyfriend, go do that instead! Oh, and there’s always Option 3 of doing neither and moving out on your own for awhile to discover yourself. Remember that none of these people get to live your life and deal with the positive and negative consequences of your action or inaction, you do.
Good luck hun… I was in a similar situation (though not with a high school sweetheart; I met Darling Husband when I was 20), and there was just no way to make everybody happy. So I made myself happy. 🙂 No regrets!