(Closed) Stuck in a pickle

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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1778 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I think that everyone WANTS to feel attractive and desired.  However, once engaged or in a serious relationship, you need to teach yourself how to want to feel attractive to your SO and not give a damn what anyone else thinks.  It’s not easy, but you have to just practice at it.  Everytime your SO gives you a compliment, thank him and mean it.  Then let it set in how he thinks you are beautiful, wonderful, etc. Once you are able to get out of your own head (I don’t mean this in a mean way), I bet the sex frequency will go back up! 

Lastly, please don’t take your ring off to try to get hit on, if your fiance found out, I bet he would be extremely hurt.  (As an example, how would you feel if he switched his FB status to single for a few hours just to get hit on, even if he didn’t do anything else.)  Good luck and remember, he loves you and thinks you are the world!

Post # 4
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143 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I do not think you are weird or strange 🙂 But, I dont think you should enourage others to flirt with you or take your ring off because I think that if your Fiance found out about these behaviors he would be very hurt. I think you need to reflect on why you need attention from others. Try to work on being happy with yourself and with the confidence that your Fiance loves you and then it wont matter what others think.  Put the thought and effort you are wasting trying to get others to flirt with you into you flirting with your Fiance. It might help reignite the spark 🙂 Good luck.

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