(Closed) Stuck on what to buy the ring bearer and flower girl. Can anyone help

posted 8 years ago in Gifts and Registries
Post # 3
413 posts
Helper bee

Curious for this answer as well!

Post # 5
1371 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Well you could do one of two things.  Buy them something you’d get them regularly as a gift (e.g. toys and so on) or buy them something for the wedding.  Our flower girl was 8.  We bought her a pair of shoes and a headband.  She wore them for the wedding, but loves the headband and continues to wear it (the shoes are of course already too small as she grows like a weed).

Good luck!

Post # 7
4824 posts
Honey bee

Maybe a little girls locket for the girl? And put a pic of her dad in it?

For the boy just a fun toy? Or something to entertain him during the reception if he gets bored? 

Post # 8
606 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I am having a flower girl and a ring fairy and both are getting a custom jewelry box (plays music, ballerina inside spins, and there name on it) and a set of pearls(necklace, earings and maybe bracelet).  They are 3 yrs and 7 yrs old and will be wearing the jewelry the day of.

Post # 10
817 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I’m having a hard time with this too. My flower girl and ring bearer are my stepkids!

I’ve made my flower girl a cute headband she can definitely wear again. I was thinking about getting her a special necklace that she could wear….however I’m worried her Mom won’t be that thrilled about her having a special momento from me and FI’s wedding day. I was also thinking some sort of music box/jewelry box for her.

As far as stepson goes, I haven’t a clue! He’ll be 4.

Of course, toys are always an option and they’ll love those.

Post # 11
3364 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

When I asked my Flower Girls to be in the wedding I gave them each a little fascinator that went with my wedding theme, since then I’ve changed it but hope to replace them with ones they can wear in the wedding! The girls are 7/8 and ALL GIRLY so when they saw it they both SQUEALED and HUGGED and that was so cute!

For the Ring Bearer, (2 years old) I bought him (as well as the Groomsmen and Groom) all Tuxedo Tshirts to wear to our Engagement Picnic and Rehearsal!

Post # 12
135 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

I got both my flower girl and ring bearer some coloring books and crayons and stickers and a camera from theknot.com. 


http://weddingshop.theknot.com/weddingwarehouse/ProductPage.aspx?scId=Child Gifts(KnotShop)&pId=P1679(KnotShop)&cId=Attendant Gifts(KnotShop)&cTypF=&sscId=FlowerGirlGifts(KnotShop)

The cameras were so cute and a big hit (plus very cheap.  and they came with the film and batteries already).  I also bought my flower girl a necklace and earring set to wear on the day off. 

Post # 13
3314 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

My niece loves pink and when I was at David’s Bridal getting my alterations done, I found the perfect gift for her!  

She loved it and has worn it a bunch since then!  🙂  We didn’t have a ring bearer so I can’t be help there.

Post # 14
447 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

I got my flower girl a wand and a Barbie (she’s 3).  It was 9 months ago and when I saw her recently she still refers to the Barbie as “Wedding Barbie.”  🙂

Also, lots of little girls love little purses.

Post # 15
937 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I would have had suggestions for you, but then I saw that your Ring Bearer and Flower Girl are older than mine (my Ring Bearer nephew is 2 yrs old). However, I did get his gift on Etsy, so you could check there – there’s a lot of great stuff! Good luck!

Post # 16
381 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I actually won  flowergirl and ring bearer gifts from weddingbee! While I ended up just having a ring dog (and Unveiled Bridal was happy to swap out the ringbearer gift for the ring dog pillow)  I gave my friend the flowergirl prize and the 8 year old loved it! 

Here are the links to what I won




I think they’re super cute!

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