- 2 years ago
- Wedding: June 2015
steckarrr : ugh, so sorry this happened to you, how disappointing.
I was brought up that it’s more rude to criticize someone’s manners than it is for them to make the faux pas. So I can totally understand how this would put you in a terrible spot.
maybe you could try saying like “I never would have accepted your offer if I knew hosting would be a financial burden for you. I feel a little awkward right now.”
Because really, you do feel awkward. You don’t mind paying the money but it’s very odd.