(Closed) Stuff I found out/RANT

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee

oooh. you’re sooo close! that is exactly why i told my guy to not let me have a clue that it’s coming because otherwise i’d drive myself insane. i’m the worst with surprises when i know they’re coming.

i wouldn’t worry too much about any more planning. just enjoy this moment! or at least try too! cuz once that ring goes on, you won’t be allowed to talk about anything else BUT the wedding. Smile

Post # 4
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767 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I know what you mean- you’re so close, so no big deal, right? But at the same time- Can it just happen already?! At least you have to family support and can talk to them. Just try to stay busy and don’t focus on the dates/time.  So soon you’ll be posting your proposal story and ring. Smile

Post # 6
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935 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

I know it’s torture. But I am just so happy for you that it’s coming! The most important thing is he’s going to do it, you both know the other person is “the one”. And YAY he has the ring! Good guy πŸ™‚ 

Post # 7
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87 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Keep it up!! My Fiance hid the ring IN OUR HOUSE, IN THE ENVELOPE, on the TOP SHELF OF OUR CLOSET.  I knew it was there, I knew what it looked like! I just couldn’t bring myself to snoop πŸ™‚

Sometimes I think that they do it just to torture us πŸ™‚

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

I’m sure he has something really lovely planned for you!  It’s OK to be anxious and excited about it, that’s natural. It’s probably quite exhilerating to know you’re *this close* and something WONDERFUL is about to happen. Pre-Proposal anticipation: you only get to feel like this once in your life (hopefully)

When I needed to distract myself I started doing the C25K running program. I’m not a runner, it’s for beginners but if you’re a runner you can also use it to help you train for a better time on your 5k. That’s what one of my GFs is doing. Also, volunteering. I’m doing that too. Distract yourself like crazy here on WB πŸ™‚

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

i feel your pain.. my bf relishes in the fact that i go crazy trying to guess when he’s going to propose! i’m such a control freak, and he loves that there is something that’s totally up to him to plan and i have absolutely no control over! and i hate it!

& oh man, if i got the green light to start planning, all hell would break loose! but congrats girl, you’re soooo close!

Post # 11
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5498 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Sounds like he def. has a plan! lol. Yay!

Post # 12
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1641 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I had to wait too. I knew he had the ring, but was waiting for a “special” time to propose. I think I have to wait a month in half for the proposal.

Post # 13
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1927 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Ahhhh!!! I know exactly how you feel, Saturday night my SO told me that he knows the date he is going to do it. He is working on the place. Then Sunday night he asked me if he should talk to my Dad about it.

This is so exciting and I am so happy, but I want it now. I am so impatient!!! Some people say “calm down, relax you know it’s coming” but it is so hard!

Good luck with the anxiety, I can’t wait to read your grad post!!!!  

Post # 14
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5388 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

I know how you feel. My FH kept dropping hints thinking that it would make waiting easier. Long story short, it got to the point where I was ready to jack him up and say, “Give me my [email protected]*n ring”! lol

Post # 15
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

My Fiance and I talked about getting engaged and decided on marriage 6 months before we actually did. I started driving myself crazy everytime I thought that would be perfect to get engaged and it didn’t happen. I started making a list of reasons why I was happy that we weren’t officially engaged yet. 1. my conversations with people didn’t revolve around wedding planning. …ect.

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