(Closed) Stupid arguments!

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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4327 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

I got angry the other night because my Darling Husband was taunting me for having cramps. I left the room because after I told him it wasn’t funny, and they are seriously painful enough to limit my productivity, he gave me a fake apology that sounded more irritated that I was offended more than he was sorry. So I went to the guest room and stayed there, intending to sleep there. He came in and apologized for real.

Post # 4
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454 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@Ms.GoodEarth:  Ugh…I hate those types of argument!  lol.  The worst part is when you see his POV, but you still feel like yours is “right” and so you battle in circles forever over something that is so stupid. 

Post # 6
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4327 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

@Ms.GoodEarth:  I wasn’t in the mood to deal with his foolishness. It was more I didn’t want to be touched or spoken to for a while. I just wanted to hole up, and deal with the cramps by myself, and not have to hear him mock me over the chores I didn’t do because *wah, i have cramps!*  Grr.

Post # 7
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1048 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@StuporDuck:  i had to explain cramps to Fiance this way:

Me:remember that time i accidentally hit you in the balls and you felt sick to your stomach and almost threw up because of the dull ache it caused?

Fiance: yeah. *shuddered*

Me: that’s what cramps feel like. every month. of every year. of my life. until i dry up.

Fiance:  jesus christ that sucks.  i’m sorry.

Post # 10
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454 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@Ms.GoodEarth:  The worst part is the apology part…it can get soooo awkward sometimes!  You both just want to cuddle and make-up but getting through the apology part sucks.  Hahaha.  Most of the time if will be one of us saying (in a pouty/still a little angry sort of way), “I love you and I just want to snuggle with you so can we please stop fighting??”  lol.

Post # 11
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692 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

My Fiance and I fight all the time about cat poop.

He just doesn’t clean the liter boxes right or at all and when I get home from a long day at work and it smells like death…I want to kill him.

I don’t know how to explain it but if he doesn’t clean them daily then the air absorbs the smell and I have to do a DEEP cleaning to get it out. I just did a deep cleaning last weekend. I feel like all my work went to waste.

Mind you, cat boxes and the dishes are his ONLY chores.

Tonight I’m sleeping on the couch because the bedroom smells like turd.

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