(Closed) Stupid b*tch asked if I was pregnant!!!

posted 10 years ago in Emotional
Post # 23
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2377 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

I’m sure you look amazing, people say the stupidest things especially when they’re jealous broads wanting your man. I’d just chalk it up to stupidity.

Post # 24
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711 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I hate when people dont think before they speak. When my son was about 5 months old I had lost a bit of weight and was excited to go out. I ran into someone I knew and they asked me when the baby was due. Totally ruined that day.

Post # 25
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Wow, I must look like I’m about to pop out a kid then.  I am about 5’6″ as well and weigh 155lbs (thyroid problem) so my goal is to be at least 130-145.  Don’t listen to her though.  I’m sure there isn’t a slightest chance that you look pregnant.  People are just ignorant.

Post # 26
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2738 posts
Sugar bee

Ha ha, then I must look like a heifer next to her. Hmmm…, I weigh more than you and when I tell ppl I’m trying to lose weight for the wedding, they look at me like I’m crazy.

Post # 27
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Ugh, that is so awful. I would have been upset too! Your height and weight sound average, so I think that was definitely ridiculous of her to think, let alone say. One of my best friends and I were at the beach once, and someone asked her when she was due. She was not pregnant, 5’5″ and weighed under 125. This is why even if someone is clearly pregnant, I don’t say anything unless they bring it up!

Post # 28
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Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2011

well if she said “you AIN’T pregnant” she is a idiot anyways!! i hate the word ain’t!! lol Don’t even worry about it at 140lbs i can’t imagine!! I must look like kate gossling when she was pregnant with all her kids then!!

Post # 29
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857 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Weird. I’m the same height, I weigh more than you, I AM pregnant, and I don’t even look pregnant. So I sincerely doubt that you do. I think there was probably just something about you that made her jealous, because I can’t fathom anyone saying that to, well, anyone!

Post # 30
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2790 posts
Sugar bee

Did you reach across the counter and slap some sense into her? What a bitch. I cannot believe that some people have no filter. Seriously. Your the same size as me so I must be pregnant too. WTF? She sounds ignorant.

Post # 31
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Bumble bee

@jenroh1984:I have made this mistake before and I still feel horrible. I saw a lady that looked pregnant and had on a maternity dress. To me she looked 5 or 6 months so I thought it was safe to say congrats. She said she had gained some weight and she was wearing a baby doll dress. I felt so bad. I will never mention pregnancy to a woman again unless I have been told personally that she is expecting. I am sooooooooo sorry this happened to you.

Post # 32
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684 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2009

 I had an aunt pat my stomach and ask “whens the baby due” about 2 months before my wedding back in March. This was infront of my entire family and I was HORRIFIED! I was wearing a baby doll type tank so I know that sometimes that can make you look like you have a little pooch but STILL!

 I would of DEMANDED the manager and told them what happened if I were you. If I was a manager I would of fired the girl right on the spot infront of everyone. There is just NO excuse for that. Even though sometimes someone might ask someone whos not pregnant if they are and once they hear “no” then most people feel like a total ass and apologize. SO sorry that happened to you! Obviously she had major issues!!!

Post # 33
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269 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

OMG!  That is awful!!!  I’m the same height and weight as you and I know I don’t look pregnant.  What a bitch!  I’m so so sorry you had to deal with that!  Worst day ever!! 

Post # 34
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1289 posts
Bumble bee

You’re taller and thinner than me, there’s NO WAY you look pregnant. No way. You’re at a great weight for your height and everything!

Post # 36
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Newbee
  • Wedding: January 1992

There is no way you look pregnant at that height and weight.  But, honestly, it shouldn’t even matter if you’re 5’6″ and 140 lbs. or 5’6″ and 440 lbs.  Making a comment like that–commenting on ANYBODY’S body publicly–is just rude.  Even if they really do look pregnant.  Even if they’re in a KFC.  Even if they are actually morbidly obese.  It’s still really rude and really hurtful.  There’s no way you should have been confronted with that.  I’d say you should have spoken to the manager, but if you’re like me, you would have been so embarrassed by the whole thing that you wouldn’t have wanted to call more attention to it.  I’m so sorry that happened to you, but I promise that it reflects badly only on her, not on you. 

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