- 10 years ago
Sooo, last night, I had a dream that we were getting married. As in, it was the day of the wedding!!!! But, my stupid SO had procrastinated to the last minute! Like, he hadn’t bothered to get a suit/tux AT ALL! Hours before we were set to say “I Do” he was insisting it would be okay, and not a big deal if he just wore his crummy old leather suit that was hanging in the back of the closet. WTF?! (He doesn’t even have a leather suit, but whatev, it’s a dream) Black leather in the middle of July?! (It was July in my dream) Ummm, no way, buddy, no way. I put my foot down, and instructed one of our friends to drive him to the suit store that was on the way to the venue.
AND he hadn’t bothered to actually get me an engagement ring, OR a wedding band. (*Or, at least that’s the way it seemed in the dream-more on that later*) Meanwhile, I had gotten his wedding band months prior. I was a weeping mess. Rushing to get my makeup and hair done, and everyone kept bugging me, and I was running late. And then I woke up. So I didn’t get to see how things turned out 🙁
*The way it seemed: In the dream, I kept having this sneaking suspicion that he was trying to keep me on my toes, and throw me off the scent by pretending to be a slacker, but really he was planning a HUGE surprise by having already picked out a tux, as well as my dream e-ring and wedding band. Again, though, didn’t get to see how it all turned out. Also, in the dream, I had told him months and months earlier, “Either you propose to me by “X” date, or I’m gonna plan our wedding w/o any input from you, and you just hafta pay for it and show up.” Thus, his slacker actions, etc, etc.
It was sooooo weird. Just had to get that out. Still debating on telling him about my dream or not. We discuss our really weird ones with each other. Maybe it would be a good way to spark some meaningful convo?? Idk…