Post # 1
I’m not sure why this made me so mad, but boy it did. FI and I were on the phone a few minutes ago and talking about what he did today. We hadn’t talked ONCE today so it was longer than usual. Well, all the sudden he goes, “Ok, I’m tired of being on the phone now.” I was just like well F-U and nice talking to you. I mean, I know he probably didn’t mean it to be rude and he knows he can tell me whatever but REALLY??? How can that not hurt my feelings?
Has your FI/SO said anything ridiculously insensitive lately?
Post # 3
Sorry, but that wouldn’t bother me. Better he tell me if he wants to get off the phone, than let me talk on and have him resent the time wasted. I’m all about direct communication.
Post # 4
@julies1949: Normally I would agree, maybe it just was bad timing today because I was in the middle of talking lol.
Post # 5
My mom needed surgery when I was six, and when my dad and I went to see her in the hospital afterwards she was still all drugged up and feeling woozy. So my dad said, “Do you want us to buzz off?” She was not impressed, lol.
Post # 7
@MrsCoachBtoBee: They are just unconscious to the world around them! 😛
Post # 8
The other day I said I wanted to wear my hair up for my wedding but I can’t cause of the shape of my face… he said, “If you just lose some weight, you’ll be fine and able to wear it any way you want”. I flipped… I said THAT IS NOT THE REASON MY FACE IS SHAPED THE WAY IT IS… ugh. lol.
Post # 9
@Rouquine: no kidding!!
@HappilyEverAfter54: WOW! that’s terrible…
Post # 10
@HappilyEverAfter54: Classic example of a stupid/insensitive thing to say!
Post # 11
LOL no bedroom action for him… for a long while.
Post # 12
@HappilyEverAfter54: Damn… that is bad. I would have totally smacked him up side the head.
OP, I definitely would’ve been upset if he said that in the middle of me talking. There’s nothing wrong with not feeling like being on the phone– I hate talking on the phone, myself– but he could’ve been nicer about it.
Post # 13
“You’d be a great golfer. Lots of counter-balance on your hips.” Thanks Dad.
Post # 14
This happened to me today! I called to see what was going on and after 2 minutes he was like “Okay…anything else?” Pusha!
Post # 15
@MightySapphire: oh my dad’s best was…I was bent over one time putting something in a mailbox and he kicked my butt, which obviously juggles, and he went “booooiiiiiiiing”…then and many times after. ugh!
@Miss Tattoo: rude!
Post # 16
“Are you sure you want to eat that?”
“You’re going to have to walk tonight after eating that.”
I’ve repeatedly explained to him that I had this figure for years before I met him so evidently I know how to manage what I eat. Evidently he thinks he needs to help me out. : (