(Closed) Stupid Stupid STUPID boyfriend…

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

I’d leave him to suffer and take care of himself.  Ugh.  Sorry your plans seem to be ruined.  FI and I never go out or on trips for the same reason so if he pulled this stunt, I’d leave without him.  Haha.

Post # 5
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

@Dizbee:  Well, it was his choice to drink this much so the “agony” is a consequence.  Who wants to take care and baby someone all weekend?  I know I wouldn’t unless they were sick with the flu or such.  I’m kind of ticked for you.

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I’m sorry, @Dizbee.  ๐Ÿ™  That sucks and I’d be livid too.  I would absolutely not wait on him either.

Maybe you should spend the day talking extra loud.  ๐Ÿ˜‰

ETA-  I retract my statement of going alone, I like @vintagestef‘s idea better.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee

Honestly, I’d tell him to suck it up and get ready to leave, because we’re going anyway. He can be sick the whole way there, he can be sick when you get there the first day; leave and have fun by yourself for a day until he can straighten himself out. I’d be pissed if Fiance did that to me, if he knew how much I wanted to go. I’d make him go, and I’d make him go sick. Hah.

Post # 10
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

@Dizbee:  I would do just that then.  Tell your SO that you are going to the theme park and enjoying somewhat of the planned weekend.  You can give him the option and joining or leaving him at home to take care of himself.  You need to have fun and enjoy something instead of sitting around all day and getting upset.  Go balls to the wall!! ๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@Dizbee:  Ugh, I really am sorry he’s done this.  My Fiance and I have only had 1 romantic weekend getaway (we’re like you and very frugal with our money, so we don’t ever take vacations together).  If my Fiance had done this the night before our weekend, I would have felt the exact same way that you feel: Pissed and hurt.

If I were you, I’d give him the option of coming with and if he decides to stay home, I’d at least do like you said and drive up to the theme park to have a little fun.  

He’s going to have to REALLY make it up to you later, and I’d make sure he knew that.

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Make him go anyway – he knew what he was getting himself into and no I wouldn’t feel sorry for him either!

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I’m livid for you! I would kill Fiance if he pulled this stunt!

I wouldn’t baby him at all! If you choose to go ahead with this trip (and why should you have to give up something you have been looking forward to for so long because he did something stupid), I’d either leave him home to deal with his hangover or drag him along. Either way I’d have no or very little sympathy.

And don’t feel bad for him. This is not your fault! He could have had a good time without getting drunk

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@Dizbee:  Does he have a reason why he decided to get drunk last night?  I mean, there wouldn’t be an excuse, in my mind, that could compensate for his ruining such an important weekend for you (especially because he knew HOW important it was to you), but maybe it’ll help you calm down a bit if you talked to him about it?

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

Pump him full of fluids, protein, tylenol, and B vitamins (B complex works great), and get his ass in the car. No excuses. He’ll get over the hangover by the end of the day or tomorrow, so he needs to suck it up.

 

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