(Closed) Such terrible dreams!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

No, not at all.  Do you have any reason to doubt his fidelity?  I’m a firm believer that dreams are expressions of our real feelings, so it concerns me that you’re having these dreams so frequently and so graphic.

Post # 5
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Keltaena:  He wouldn’t have asked you to marry him if he didn’t adore you!  Just keep telling yourself that!  Maybe it’s the stress from the wedding planning that’s overwhelming you.  Hopefully they stop once the wedding comes!

Post # 7
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Keltaena:  Have you told him?  He could reassure you that he’s thrilled to marry you!!

Post # 8
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Buzzing Beekeeper

I have dreams like this from time to time. The worst one was my Fiance telling me he wasn’t sure about the wedding and refused to talk to me. I was so upset when I woke up. I even had a dream once that he said he loved me and his ex and couldn’t choose. I woke up in tears.

Most of my dreams usually consist of him going away somewhere and I can’t reach him by phone or text. I usually wake up panicked. That being said, I have absoultely NO reason to doubt him. I know that I’m a very paranoid person and I have low self-esteem and I create these things in my head. It sure sucks though.

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Keltaena:  I think it’s just part of trying to wrap our heads around the fact that we’re actually, finally getting that promise of forever. I have NO doubts about my Fiance, but I’ve had dreams of him cheating on me in the last few weeks (always with a redhead, ironically). I also had dreams about old crushes that I haven’t thought about since high school.

I agree it’s upsetting. I had such a realistic one the other night that I woke up mad at Fiance – took me awhile to shake the dream off.

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I have these now and again,its always Darling Husband leaving,being with someone else etc. I think its more just our fear of losing someone we love so much,even if it is irrational! I have woken up angry at Darling Husband many,many times,and hes been woken up with a pillow being thrown up at him before now, when Id not quite woken up fully and was fuming that he was gettin it on (in my dream) with a girl called Gemma,in our bed,with me in the bed too! It makes us both laugh after Ive calmed down and woken up properly.

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