(Closed) Suckered into saying YES….have you ever said yes to the wrong bridesmaid?

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Hey, at least she put the deposit down on her dress asap, unlike your other BM’s. I think it is sweet she offered. Go with it. It won’t be that bad.

Post # 4
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

the whole thing seems very interesting but i think you’re stuck with her now so try and make the best of it.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

It sucks that you’re stuck in a bad situation, but make it a good one…try and grow closer to her!  If she flakes, the worst that happens is that someone who wasn’t originally in the wedding party is flaking out on it, so you’re no worse off than you’d be anyway.  If she comes through, that’s an awesome surprise!

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

When you said she’s a moocher, I was worried she might not pay for her dress, but given that she’s already done it, perhaps she’s turned around a bit since you last knew her? She sounds very keen and excited to be a bridesmaid, so this could be a good chance for you to get to know her better. Like others said, if she drops out, what have you got to lose?

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