- 3 years ago
- Wedding: July 2015
Hello everyone! I apologize if this post is not in the right message board. I need some advice on how to keep my baby fever at bay. What did you do before considering TTC? How did you keep your mind away from it? Is this temporary?
Until recently, my husband and I were on the fence about children. A few months back we had a conversation about children and decided that we would definetly want our own sometime in the future. Maybe in 1-2 years we would start thinking about TTC. For some reason after this conversation took place my brain just went on full baby mode. I have NEVER felt this way before, I can’t think about anything else. I think what makes it more difficult is that everything is in place, my husband and I have been married for 4 years and have been together for 11. We both have stable, well paying jobs, a house and supportive families. In addition, I’m already 31, I don’t really want to wait 2 years, specially when I know some couples could spend years TTC. We have planned a 4 day hiking trip to Machu Picchu for next July with 2 friends. We have not yet booked anything, but I know my husband really wants to go. I’m not sure if TTC before that is the best idea. So back to my original question, what can I do to stop thinking about it for the time being?
Sorry for the rant!