- 5 years ago
Ill probably get grilled for this but I HAD to after seeing several cheating posts recently.
An ex of mine moved in with me and I was SURE he was planning on cheating on me on a planned trip away for a 30th that I wasnt invited to.
I was also paying for EVERYTHING (he suddenly became unemployed and didnt contribute to a thing).
Lots of alarm bells were ringing and I kept slagging myself off saying “dont be such a paranoid idiot etc etc”
Rule one, if its nagging you, somethings up. particularly if there are dodgy goings on with phones etc.
he may be planning something else other than straying so keep your mind open!
That said, if he’s treating you badly and your at the point where theres nothing left but bitterness (as was my case by this point) heres what I did..
I disabled the phone access elsewhere except the bedroom and installed a bug there.
He left for his trip when I was at work, when I got home I heard everything. How his friends had rigged up a girl for him, how big her boobs were, how FUNNY it was that I’d cried and apologised to him for suspecting him of cheating..
Had many drinks and spent the night with close friends, crying, laughing and feeling very much supported YAY!
The next day, I recorded the incriminating comments onto my answering machine and then called where he was supposed to be staying.
surprise surprise, he wasnt there. Had apparently gone down to the er shop. at um 7am..
He called back an hour later and the answering machine was on.
He returned to his car packed full of his belongings and parked out front of his parents home – where he’d moved from.
Now THATS sweet revenge :))))
Edit: added my first poll!! WHOO HOO!!!