(Closed) Super Sad Face! Missing my FI already :(

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
8882 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

LOL at the last part. I would be going crazy if my Fiance left for that long. We haven’t been apart for more than 4 days since we met. I have Generalized Anxiety Disorder which also includes separation anxiety so I get in a tizzy when we have time apart. I know it’s not normal, but I can’t help it either ๐Ÿ™

Post # 4
5273 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

I hear ya! My husband travels for work usually a week to 2 weeks at a time. ๐Ÿ™

What I find the best to help time fly is to really concentrate on work during the week, and always have some plans on the weekends – this is always when I have my girl time. Then before you know it, he is back!  

Post # 5
533 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I used to be LD with my husband, and to be honest, the two weeks will suck and you will miss him! As PP have said, try to keep yourself busy and hopefully the time will fly by!

And to keep you sane…… start thinking of all the fun things you can do with him when he gets back (aka: sexy party time!)  Well, as long as his grandma isn’t staying with you!

Post # 8
3265 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

Lol. I can’t imagine how clean our place would stay if SO was out of town. We did long distance and would only see each other on the weekends for 3 years. 2 1/2 years ago he moved in and I just can’t fathom not seeing him all week again!

Keep yourself busy!

Post # 11
945 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I am familiar with the idea of being away from my SO..he was gone for an entire year deployed in Afghanistan..longest year ever, but it eventually ended! You can do it!

Post # 12
1438 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

aww I’m sorry your sad, I would be too. He will be back before you know it, you need to keep yourself busy!

the longest I have ever been away from my Fiance is when we first started dating, me & my BFF went on a cruise for a week. It killed me.

Post # 13
390 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I can sympathize, my Fiance is going camping for the long weekend and I’m not going.  Not a huge deal but when you don’t live together you take all the together time you can get.

Post # 15
1036 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

my Fiance travels alot for work. sometimes he doesnt know when he will be home because the works emergency and is on call 24-7 and some jobs are longer than others so i know how you are feeling. he just got home actually from work, but this time it was training. he was supposed to be out of state for 2 weeks but they trained over the weekend so he got to come home early =) & yess the house does stay cleaner longer. haha. just have to keep yourself busy and find things to do. i hang out with my mom alot because she lives close by. just dont look at the clock whatever you do. & always keep busy. it will be easier when you have kids and your time is going elsewhere. the hive is always a good place to spend sometime.

Post # 16
945 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@leeshabee:  It’s definitely an extreme case but even if I don’t see him

For a couple days I still miss him so I completely understand!

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