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I am completely new to this forum and I am just waiting!
My Boyfriend or Best Friend and I have been together year and a half. We were both married once before for over 10 years. We have three teenagers together And both have them about 50% of the time. We live together and are very happy.
I want to keep quiet and let this happen his own terms. It is hard to not think about it, hence I am here! We have talked about marriage and looked at rings. He said to trust him and he will do the right thing… That was in November 2013. I do trust him and I have not said one word since then.
I am just thinking about it every day now…Having dreams, invitation to weddings, weddings on the TV. It is causing me to look into things way too much. His 12 year old daughter is even waiting, she asks and talks about us getting married.
I asked him to go to a birthday party this Saturday and he said, “do you really want to go?” I said, “kinda, why, do we have plans?” He said, “maybe!” We don’t have the kids this weekend and it just got me all excited and now I know if I have any expectations I will just be let down.
How did some of you get through this time!
Sleepless in Seattle
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