(Closed) Supportive Bees Only !

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
3182 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I haven’t gone through this but just wanted to tell you to hang in there!  I’m sure it’s a difficult time for you and hope you have support from those close to you.  It sounds like you’re confident in your decision so try not to worry too much about any judgements people will pass.  

Post # 4
10287 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’m sorry you’re going through this. I’ve personally never dealt with this but I have friends that have and I know it’s tough. Only you can make the best decision for you and it seems like you’ve made it. It will no doubt be hard but hopefully in time everything will get back to normal. Good luck!

Post # 5
2512 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I am so sorry you are going through this.

Does your Fiance know? Hopefully he can be one of your number one supporters. If not, is there any friend or family member who can go with you?

Don’t feel guilty. You are doing what is right for you. We are here for you.



Post # 6
46672 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I fully support your decision. Only you know what is best for you. Take care of yourself and know that there are supportive people who are thinking of you.


Post # 8
3305 posts
Sugar bee

Since you are certain you don’t want to keep it (or go through adoption) then try and get about getting the RU 486 pill. It can avoid surgical abortion. If you need someone to talk to about it- PM me.

Post # 9
423 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Been there.  It can be a tough decision, or a really really easy one.  Either way, it helps to have support – especially from your partner and/or family and/or a close friend. 

If I might give one piece of advice: choose who you tell carefully and don’t involve too many people, at least until after the procedure.


Post # 11
1636 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

be strong

Post # 12
1602 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Be prepared for the journey it might take to heal – Try and surround yourself with only people who will support you, and don’t have any expectations. I’ve never been in this situation, but I do know that a lot of people will go through a period of mourning.

We are here for you if you need any support!

Post # 14
5095 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Good luck! Know that you’re making the best choice for you and your family at this moment in time.  And you’re far from alone – abortion is the most common surgical procedure in the U.S.  There are probably lots of women you know who have had one, even if they haven’t told anyone.

Also know that it’s ok to feel a range of emotions – anything from grief to relief. All of those are normal and ok.

Post # 15
1458 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

I think it’s really strong and wise of you to realize that you cannot bring a child into the world at this time.  I think so many women are so against the choice you made, and they end up bringing a baby into the world when they, their family/support systems, and their lives are not ready for a child yet.  I hope that if I were in your shoes, I would have your strength and clarity.  Best of luck and speedy recovery (if you’re not feeling well afterwards) to you!

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