(Closed) Surely it’s the wedding stress….

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2017

The stress and my (few and far between, Id like to think) Bridezilla blowouts actually seem to help our relationship in the end because we both sincerely want our wedding to be the day that each other has dreamed of, and will do whatever it takes to make each other happy. We had a lot of arguements in the very begining, and probably will have a lot more closer to the end, but right now we are just coasting.

I am so glad that your FI’s best man sided with you! Hopefully that helps him see the light!

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I agree that it’s the stress! Wedding can be so stressful and expensive. I snapped at Fiance tonight because I decided last minute I didn’t like my shoes and wanted to get new ones. And I didn’t like the ribbon we wanted to put on the cake and wanted to get some lace instead. The shoes were like $50 and the lace was $7. I lost my job, so we’re not supposed to be spending too much money since the wedding is already expensive. Long story short, FI’s mother told me to knock off the shopping and I took it out on him and said “If I want lace on my d*mn cake I’ll freaking have it because I”m the bride”. Was it Bridezilla? Absolutly. Am I proud of it? No. Point is, it’s a stressful time.

Post # 5
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I’m glad you two came to some sort of compromise, but I find it a little odd that it took his best man to agree with you for him to finally see your point. 

I’ve been all sorts of everything stressed with everything.  We work full time and things just picked up for me where i’ve been doing crazy overtime now, take 2 master classes every semester including summer, are about to close on a house next week, finally got a venue recently but have been trying to delay putting that deposit down cause we need every penny for the closing… AHHHH.  Forget even getting real furniture for a while.  And then we have to finish planning and figuring out expenses for a 4 week trip NZ/Aus.  Luckily Fiance has been taking it really well, is more laid back than me and doesnt lose it like I do, though I think he’s getting pretty tired of me lashing out at him.

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