(Closed) Surprise Performance for Hubby

posted 9 years ago in Music
  • poll: Do you think this is a good idea?
    Yes : (5 votes)
    17 %
    No : (25 votes)
    83 %
  • Post # 3
    237 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2009

    This sounds like too much for a reception and would maybe be a better fit at a joint bachelor/ette party? If you posted a youtube link to what you are describing, you might get better feedback.

    Post # 4
    2640 posts
    Sugar bee

    I don’t think singing a song is a bad idea.  But I can’t imagine being on board with a song in tight fitting dresses, boys sitting in chairs, "little lap dance sorta"…  As you’ve described it, I don’t see how you can make it still appropriate for kids. 

    Post # 5
    694 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    I would just worry about all the time it would take to set up for this, even if it’s just 15-20 minutes (then you have to change back- another 15 minutes), depending on how long your reception is, do you really want to lose all that time? It seems that 90% of brides (my opinion!) always say that they wish they had more time at the reception! But, if it’s important to you and that outweighs it, do what you think will be fun!

    Post # 6
    960 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    Aww I think it’s a super cute idea. I love that song and I don’t think the song or the accompanying dance is too racy. Would you actually be singing or just doing the dance? If you’re not a strong singer I would suggest just doing the dance. Plus there is A LOT of fast singing in that song (as I’m sure you’re aware). If it’s something that’s really important to you, I say go for it. It seems like you’re going to do it in a classy way, just like DC. Just make sure some one gets it on camera!

    Post # 7
    5271 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2009

    I always think that surprise dances are a really cute idea, and a great way to express your fun side, Go for it! My only suggestion, is the changing part, I agree that it might take too long to change in/out of the outfits. Plus I think it will make the dance more fun if you get down in your wedding dress!

    Post # 9
    883 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2009

    I was going to do a surprise dance for my husband! I think it can be a really fun idea.  Just be cautious wiht the appropriate around kids line.  Maybe gear it a little to the sweeter side or incorporate it in the garter removal/toss.

    Post # 10
    110 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: February 2009

    I love that idea! I am stealing it from you.LOL

    Post # 11
    2470 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    eh I’m not crazy about the idea. As a guest, all I would be thinking is one word: awkward. Even if its not too risque, its still sort of… a show. I guess it depends on how your guests would react but I know mine would probably think its a little strange.

    I also don’t know how much I like the idea of breaking up the reception to include it. I get bored when weddings have a lot of “special dances” outside the first dance and father/daughter-mother/son dance.

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