- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2012
My two sisters are bridesmaids in my June wedding and about two months ago one of my sisters told me to not make plans for any Sunday in April. Bells went off in my head and I immediately thought ok, she is planning a bridal shower, sweet! My sister is amazing at throwing parties and even if she wasn’t the quality of a shower isn’t what I am concerned about at all! She was very vauge during the conversation so I asked my other sister what was going on (she cannot keep secrets at all!) and she spilled the beans that my shower was supposed to be a surprise and two very very important ladies would be flying in for it! I am so incredibly thrilled and excited but Im starting to get sort of worried because aren’t I supposed to supply a guest list? Do I get any imput at all in the type of shower I have? Not trying to be picky at all, Im honored that she would throw one at all (my Maid/Matron of Honor is in nursing school and cant), but my sisters are quite a bit older and think that shower games are stupid and well I dont! Ive always dreamed of having a traditional shower with the cheesey toilet paper dress games and all. Most importantly, I have my heart set on having an “ugly bridesmaid dress” game. How do I let my sister know my preferances and who should/shouldnt be on the guest list? Am I overthinking here ladies?? Should I just butt out?