(Closed) Surprised by this feeling!

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
4024 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

That is really cute! It is funny how much you miss them when they are gone. But only a couple days, not even, and you will be with him again! 🙂

Post # 4
990 posts
Busy bee

that is adorable…and you shouldnt be surprised, especially after spending so much time long distance. you finally got to spend that time with him and you really enjoy his company…its sweet

Post # 6
3125 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

My husband travels for work and normally I enjoy when he’s gone here and there, but this last time was actually kind of hard, and I felt very lonely! But I’ll agree I slept a little more soundly having the bed to myself and no one else’s alarms ringing.. So i can understand how you feel!

Post # 7
372 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I had a similar experience last weekend! He left on Saturday morning for his bachelor party in Atlantic City, and I hung out around the house to clean and then went out with my mom for a while. I had fun when I was out… and usually I am a girl who LOVES alone-time. It’s the only time I truly control the remote 🙂 Plus I love some private peace and quiet. But I felt a little bit lonely without him, and as cheesy as this sounds, I realized how much his presence gives life to our home.

Ick, that’s so cheeseball!

But, like you girls, I slept awesome! We have two pit bulls who sleep in bed with us, so our queen bed feels kind of small when all four of us are there. Three is just right!

Post # 8
2312 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

Oh. That cute how you miss him. I myself can relate. SO is will be out of the country next week for work and I miss him already. Sigh.

Post # 9
946 posts
Busy bee

My SO and I won’t live together until we are married, but we’re together all the time because we have a lot of the same friends and we climb together a lot.  So the days/nights that we’re not together, I feel cheesy because I feel lonely too.  lol

Post # 10
6572 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

i have that too. i used to live alone and loved it, i thought i’d never even want a husband as a roommate b/c i loved it so much. but then when i moved in with my husband (then fi) i loved it even more. when he’s gone i find myself doing silly things that i wouldn’t normally do alone b/c it’s my routine, like shutting our bedroom door at night b/c he doesn’t like the sound of the air conditioning, even though i don’t even notice it. last weekend our dog was at his grandparents and my hubby was gone so that was even worse, i was soooo lonely!

Post # 11
944 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

Awh, that’s sweet!  I like my alone time but it’s when I go to get a pedi or go shopping or something but know he’ll still be home when I get there and especially at night.  A few weekends ago my Fiance left on a Friday evening to go turkey hunting and didn’t return until Sunday evening.  I wanted him to go, because I knew he really was excited and he also hadn’t had a chance to go hunting in a year–but on the other hand I didn’t want him to go.  It didn’t help that I was getting over a cold, thank goodness it wasn’t a few days prior when I was really sick, so I felt lonely that night.  I let my little dog sleep in the bed with me, which he was surprised I’m sure and totally snuggled up to me.  Sleeping in our house for the first time alone was a little strange! 

Post # 12
4161 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

This is exactly how I felt this week!  I was looking forward to having some alone time because we’re ALWAYS together except when we’re at work, or if he’s golfing with friends, etc.  We always vacation together, so this is the first time we’ve been apart for so long.  But when my Fiance left, I couldn’t stop crying at night when I was home alone.  I didn’t end up doing anything I was looking forward to doing, and instead ate and watched a lot of tv.  It’s been 5 days now, and the feeling has passed a bit, but I’m looking forward to seeing him on Sunday.  It just reminds us how much we do love our FI’s and don’t want to be without them 🙂 

Post # 14
384 posts
Helper bee

I do the same thing.  We only see each other on weekends, because we live an hour apart.  Once in awhile we’ll meet during the week but with both of us having jobs and homes, it’s hard to jugglie it all.  Hence, the recent “Moving In together” conversations.   I do the same thing though, if I’m not going to see him on a weekend or even one of the weekend nights I get all excited about doing what I want, just like you.  Then, when it gets to be Thursday….I’m all upset about it.

I won’t see him one weekend in June, the 18th I think, so we’ll see if I can “control” myself. 

Glad it’s a long weekend this weekend – I’ll get 4 nights with him instead of 2!!  Yay!

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