Post # 1
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Bee Keeper
gotta admit, im in this category as we didnt have sex on our wedding night as 4 scuba dives, a long hot day in the sun, getting married and a couple of drinks during dinner would do that to ya i guess…..
to be honest, im suprised its only 1 in 4 couples …..
http://www.dailytelegraph.com.au/news/one-in-four-married-couples-dont-have-sex-on-their-wedding-night/story-e6frf00i-1225756561766
ONE in four couples do not have sex on what should be the most romantic night of their life.
While 90 per cent of people expect sex to be on the agenda on their wedding night at least 25 per cent are disappointed, a survey of newlyweds revealed.
The Bride To Be magazine study, which prodded the sex lives of 1000 newlyweds, found most couples viewed their wedding as a life experience, with more than half of brides believing committing to their partner was the most important part of the day.
“Consummating their vows in the bedroom is just not the priority for some of our couples,” editor Amelia Bloomfield said.
About 16 per cent of couples admitted to having more sex since becoming engaged, and one in three couples also admitted to having more sex once married than they did during their engagement
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
I’ll go ahead and say it…we didn’t have sex on our wedding night. Mainly because it was my time of the month, but we were super tired as well. That’s what happens when you elope in Vegas! Too much fun!
Post # 4
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Bumble bee
It would not surprise me in the least if I did not have sex on my wedding night. I cannot imagine how tired I would be after all the planning, and the big day itself.
I too am surprised that’s not a bigger number!
Post # 5
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Helper bee
We have already established that we won’t be. We hope to be drunk and very tired and happy and ready to collapse into sleep by bed time! There are plenty of other nights for having sex. 🙂
Post # 6
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Sugar bee
I am worried I will be too tired…but I hope not!
Post # 7
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Blushing bee
- Wedding: November 2009 - Cathedral of the Sacred Heart & The Jefferson Hotel
I have warned mr. cloud that I am refusing to be in the no sex category! we will be um, staying away from each other, for a few months before the wedding, so I will be ready!!
Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
Yeah, after waiting 24 years, there was NO WAY Mr. Bunny and I wouldn’t do it on the night of! It was inevitable.
Post # 9
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Busy bee
Yeah.. I’m pretty sure we’ll be in this category. After all the anxiety, excitement, partying and drinking.. who has the energy?? I think we’ll get down that AM lol
Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
I was also surprised when I first read that so many people dont have sex on their wedding night. Our reception didnt last until the wee hours of the night and I too didn’t want to be in the no-sex-on-the-wedding-night group, so we made love on our wedding night 🙂 Im not really sure why it was so important to me though because we didnt wait to be married before intercourse, nor did we give it up before the wedding.
Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
There was a boards poll on this a few months ago. I was very surprised with the results! I wish I could find it but I can’t right now! There was probably 10-20% that said either we didn’t have sex, or we did but we could have gone without.
I was with Mrs. Bunny. I had waited until the wedding, we weren’t waiting any longer!
Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
Post # 13
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Busy bee
- Wedding: June 2010 - The Mountain Terrace, Woodside, CA
Wow, that’s crazy! I’ve already promised my Fiance that we’ll do it, and have even planned some time for it (heehee, I know, romantic, right?). We’re planning to sneak out of our reception 30 minutes early, so we can have time to “change and set up for the after party”, but really it’s so we have time to rip off each others clothes! At least, I hope I’ll want to rip off his clothes after such a long day. I’m sure I’ll be eager just to get my heavy dress off at least!
Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
I don’t really know one way or the other if we will. We both love staying up and having fun with our friends and family (read: a few…ok many…drinks) and a long weekend. We’ve been together 8 years and have been er, together since then. So no big thrills on wedding night. Don’t get me wrong, it’s great, but it’s not the focus of our night. But I feel like Fiance will probably want to…soo…
Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
Most of my married friends didn’t have sex on their wedding nights… most of them did the deed in the morning when they woke up. I’m kind of indifferent to it all… I love doing it with Fiance, but if we don’t end up doing it on our wedding night, no big deal. I’d rather have great, passionate sex the following day than “I’m-dead-tired-but-I-guess-we-have-to-do-it-cuz-it’s-our-wedding-night” sex.
Post # 16
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Bee Keeper
My sister didn’t, but I definitly plan to be in the “We did it on our wedding night!” category. lol.