(Closed) Survey says not all having sex on the wedding night….

posted 11 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
2324 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2021

I’ll go ahead and say it…we didn’t have sex on our wedding night. Mainly because it was my time of the month, but we were super tired as well. That’s what happens when you elope in Vegas! Too much fun!

Post # 4
1149 posts
Bumble bee

It would not surprise me in the least if I did not have sex on my wedding night.  I cannot imagine how tired I would be after all the planning, and the big day itself.  

I too am surprised that’s not a bigger number!


Post # 5
200 posts
Helper bee

We have already established that we won’t be. We hope to be drunk and very tired and happy and ready to collapse into sleep by bed time! There are plenty of other nights for having sex. 🙂


Post # 6
3363 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

I am worried I will be too tired…but I hope not!

Post # 7
121 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2009 - Cathedral of the Sacred Heart & The Jefferson Hotel

I have warned mr. cloud that I am refusing to be in the no sex category! we will be um, staying away from each other, for a few months before the wedding, so I will be ready!!

Post # 8
1998 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

Yeah, after waiting 24 years, there was NO WAY Mr. Bunny and I wouldn’t do it on the night of! It was inevitable.

Post # 9
924 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Yeah.. I’m pretty sure we’ll be in this category.  After all the anxiety, excitement, partying and drinking.. who has the energy?? I think we’ll get down that AM lol

Post # 10
2143 posts
Buzzing bee

I was also surprised when I first read that so many people dont have sex on their wedding night. Our reception didnt last until the wee hours of the night and I too didn’t want to be in the no-sex-on-the-wedding-night group, so we made love on our wedding night 🙂 Im not really sure why it was so important to me though because we didnt wait to be married before intercourse, nor did we give it up before the wedding.

Post # 11
2204 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

There was a boards poll on this a few months ago.  I was very surprised with the results! I wish I could find it but I can’t right now!  There was probably 10-20% that said either we didn’t have sex, or we did but we could have gone without.

I was with Mrs. Bunny.  I had waited until the wedding, we weren’t waiting any longer!

Post # 13
661 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - The Mountain Terrace, Woodside, CA

Wow, that’s crazy! I’ve already promised my Fiance that we’ll do it, and have even planned some time for it (heehee, I know, romantic, right?). We’re planning to sneak out of our reception 30 minutes early, so we can have time to “change and set up for the after party”, but really it’s so we have time to rip off each others clothes! At least, I hope I’ll want to rip off his clothes after such a long day. I’m sure I’ll be eager just to get my heavy dress off at least!

Post # 14
2022 posts
Buzzing bee

I don’t really know one way or the other if we will.  We both love staying up and having fun with our friends and family (read: a few…ok many…drinks) and a long weekend.  We’ve been together 8 years and have been er, together since then.  So no big thrills on wedding night.  Don’t get me wrong, it’s great, but it’s not the focus of our night.  But I feel like Fiance will probably want to…soo…

Post # 15
2475 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Most of my married friends didn’t have sex on their wedding nights… most of them did the deed in the morning when they woke up.  I’m kind of indifferent to it all… I love doing it with Fiance, but if we don’t end up doing it on our wedding night, no big deal.  I’d rather have great, passionate sex the following day than “I’m-dead-tired-but-I-guess-we-have-to-do-it-cuz-it’s-our-wedding-night” sex.

Post # 16
5495 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

My sister didn’t, but I definitly plan to be in the “We did it on our wedding night!” category. lol.

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