(Closed) suspect he’s proposing but i have a littke problem…

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

@shultimate13:  If he does it, it would be super sad to not allow him to tell people.  I also think that it’s strange it takes weeks to get ahold of someone. What happens if someone dies. Does she just miss it? 

Post # 4
3482 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

How fast is your postal service? I’d just send her a note by mail, wait a reasonable time to assume it’s gotten to her place, and then tell the world.

If she’s that hard to get hold of then it’s her own fault if she finds out via Facebook!

Post # 5
2114 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

WEEKS? does she not answer her phone? ever? email?

I would enjoy the trip and worry about that later if the time comes – and if she doesnt find out first than you can’t tell her that you didnt TRY to get a hold of her, I am sure she will understand.

Post # 6
709 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

are her phone lines maybe down due to the hurricane?

Post # 7
1938 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

If you send her a text, she won’t answer it for weeks? I am not sure how that is possible. I agree with the PP, you can’t say that you didn’t try. I agree that she shouldn’t find out from facebook. Maybe consider disabling your wall until all the people you are trying to tell (sister included) have been told, so that nobody writes “Congratulations on your engagement” on your wall and lets the cat out of the bag. I most definitely would not wait until you have spoken with her to tell all your family and friends. Maybe try to contact her this week and give her a heads up about what you suspect so she might answer her phone when the time comes.

Post # 8
182 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I am not sure if this will work for you but my Fiance and I waited a few days to tell anyone (it was nice having our own little secret) and then we told our parents/siblings/best friends. We asked them to not say anything online or to anyone else to make sure that we were able to get a hold of everyone and tell them ourselves. We had actually been engaged for about two weeks before we posted it online. None of our family spilled the beans until our “facebook wednesday” so it worked out perfect. 

Post # 10
436 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Sounds like you’re getting a bit ahead of yourself.

Just try to enjoy the amazing moment if it happens, just try to get in contact with her ASAP. 


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