- 7 years ago
Hello Ladies! As some of you may know my waiting period was horrible around the holidays. Without work and nothing to occupy the majority of my time my mind was wondering and making life pretty miserable. But the good news is, the holidays are over and I am super busy again! This week I found out I hit my sales goals for last year at work and get a nice bonus and a bump up in my salary and it was my birthday!
My boyfriend surprises me occassionally, maybe 2-3 times a year by doing something, typically these are just sweet little things and not neccissarily something over the top. Either way they are much appreciated and show that he still cares.
Last night I thought we were going to dinner for my birthday and to celebrate my work accomplishments but he had a surprise party with close friends. Totally surprised and very sweet!
Although I totally would have said yes to a proposal he is not the type of guy to do something like that on a holiday, event, or infront of a lot of people. I’m still patiently (trying so hard) waiting to ‘sparkle’. That is what the SO and I refer to as the e-ring 🙂
Hope everyone is doing well and staying strong! I was a witch at the end of the year to my SO about getting engaged and I felt horrible about the way I acted so I am working on not getting like that again. I know it is hard and seems mind consuming but you can do it. Just think about how much more inclined he will be to ask when your not being a crab about it and being yourself. (Thats what I keep telling myself)