(Closed) Taboo to wear a colored moissy solitaire RHR before being engaged?

posted 4 years ago in Rings
Post # 2
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Busy bee

I don’t think that wearing any ring on your right hand is taboo, ever, regardless of what it is and where it came from. 

Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

intertwangled:  If you’d wear an engagement ring on your left hand, then I don’t think there’s anything taboo in the slightest about a RHR that looks like a solitaire… it’s not even a clear/white stone.  But if it was, I still don’t think it’d be taboo at all.  You’re fine!

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 1997

I have always worn a RHR, both before my engagement and after. Sometimes they have a stone, sometimes they don’t, but there is nothing at all “tabboo” about a RHR whether you are expecting a proposal or not.

Post # 5
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Worker bee

not taboo as a RHR! lol.

can i get a link to the setting you bought on etsy? i’ve been trying to find one for my moissy! 🙂

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

Did you ask yourself to marry yourself? 😉 people wear all kinds of rhr with as little or as much meaning they want. Rock it! It’s gorgeous.

Post # 7
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Wannabee

intertwangled:  I felt the exact same way you do. But after a while I just said that this is what I want and I’m going to get it. So I bought myself a solitaire RHR. My Boyfriend or Best Friend has stated that it doesnt matter to him. 

Post # 8
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Wannabee

And that stone is GORGEOUS!

  • This reply was modified 3 years, 6 months ago by  meangirlapril.
Post # 9
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Helper bee

Nope not taboo, I wore a RHR ring and LHR before I was engaged. 

Post # 10
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2013 - Stillwell House

Three years into our 6.. 7? year relationship, I bought myself a 2.5 tdw ring featuring a 1 carat marquise center stone.  I referred to it as my “I dont need a man” ring and wore it as a RHR. We were not engaged, and were not talking engagement, but the ring amused him because he gets it – that he is wanted, not needed.  

I did feel a little dirty later, when we were talking engagement, because on some levels he felt he had to compete with my bauble. Yes, he bought bigger.  I do not often wear that RHR now, but mostly because the custom setting lacks stability and I am working up to a re-set.  

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

Completely agree with all pps – rock it! Unless you would ever consider using it as an e-ring in the future but that doesn’t sound like the case. Enjoy it!

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2016

No?

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I’ve never worn RHR – I’ve always worn rings on my ring finger. When I was single and when Darling Husband and I were dating I always wore one whether it be a blue sapphire, moonstone, birthstone ring, moissy, etc. and never thought twice about it. 

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