(Closed) tacky?

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
1498 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I think it’s okay to ask them if they ‘want to stay with you, it’ll be $100/couple’ or tell them they can stay somewhere else if they’d like.  I wouldn’t make it sound like they have to stay there or that you’d prefer it, just that it’s a low cost option for them that you think would be fun.

Post # 4
3267 posts
Sugar bee

As long as it is an option I think it is ok.  But be prepared that they choose to stay somewhere a little more private.

This opinion also hinges on them all having their own rooms in the shared house.

Post # 5
46606 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I really don’t like the word tacky.

I agree with the pp’s. As long as you make it an option, and be clear that each couple has their own room, I think it is fine to offer the house as their accomodation. They are obviously going to have expenses for accomodation in any case.

Be prepared that (a) some may want to have a quiet getaway on their own and (b) these things sometimes don’t turn out to be the blissful experience you imagined.

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