Tacky shower idea?

posted 5 months ago in Parties
Post # 16
289 posts
Helper bee

I don’t really get it but it seems like harmless fun to me. Also, can it be considered gift grabby if its the host asking for the gifts and not the person receving them?

Post # 18
2198 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

catattack1990 :  I’ve got more curiosity than a house full of cats. I’d call/text that bride, strike up a conversation about her upcoming wedding (OMG, so excited for you and fiance!), and figure out a way to ask about the 100+ kitchen utensils. Are they donating them to a women’s shelter? Are they using them as decoration in their home? Are they into a bit of kinky sex where they like to spank each other with a different wooden spoon each day of the month?


Post # 19
3695 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

Horseradish :  I’ve seen that at a couple of bachelorette parties (which was fun!) but not at a shower, which…yeah seems awkward at best. 

Post # 20
10384 posts
Sugar Beekeeper

I wouldn’t do it and no, it’s not it’s in good taste to ask people for something more on top of another gift. 

Post # 21
1597 posts
Bumble bee

This seems harmless and I bet the only people who think this is gift grabby are people who’ve been on this site too long. This site perpetuates the idea that gifts are bad and being a bridesmaid is a huge burden.

Post # 23
502 posts
Busy bee

Yea. That’s very gift grabby…. Especially if they’ve already had a Jack and Jill. 

Post # 24
898 posts
Busy bee

slomotion :  I disagree as I have loads of spatulas.  My SO is always making fun of me.  But he bought me a seasonal one as a gift once.  They’re fun cute and cheap and I always use lots when I’m cooking or baking. I impulse buy them. 

Maybe im a spatula hoarder?  I should have an all spatula shower. 😎

Post # 26
800 posts
Busy bee

Never heard of this 🤔 maybe they’ll secretly exchange most the items for cleaning supplies and little gadgets from the dollar store 😆omg. 

Post # 27
800 posts
Busy bee

sharkey38 :  i actually could totally get into an all spatula shower! As part of a wedding gift to an upcoming wedding I personalized a spatula that reads “mr & mrs… a perfect mix”. 

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