(Closed) Tactful way to ask

posted 4 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 2
46672 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

MIbride14:  “Is Father ____ available? We have been to his services and really enjoyed him. We would love to have him for our ceremony of he is available.”

Post # 3
2610 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014 - Madison, WI

I would just ask, when we talked to the pastor at our church about getting married part of the application was writing down your number once choice of pastor to officiate. If that pastor was available they would officiate and if not then someone else would do it. I would just ask nicely and say you really enjoy that priest’s style and would be honored if he would officiate your wedding. I would be surprised if you’re the first person to ever ask for someone specific.

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