(Closed) Take a deep breath

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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690 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Before you say anything, take a deep breath. Then calmly state your side/ides/wants. This is your wedding, you should have what you want, but just keep your voice controlled. I know it’s rewally hard- I have the same problem. This approach helps me.

Post # 4
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1566 posts
Bumble bee

My mom and I sometimes have this issue as well, and sometimes it really is impossible to discuss the wedding calmly. If you really can’t keep calm, the best solution may be to walk away and resume the conversation later. you don’t need to make a lot of decisions for a while, so I think this would be feasible for you. 

Also, if your mom isn’t paying for the wedding, maybe don’t discuss all the details with her. If she is, cut her some slack and remember that it’s her money so she gets a say! 

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