(Closed) Take me off the list.

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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110 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2016

@bluesgirl: I don’t know the whole story but wanted to offer my empathy…  numb, angry, relieved, sad, whatever you are feeling is OK. I’m sorry that it happened, particularly the way it happened it sounds like.

Post # 4
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2295 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@bluesgirl: Im very sorry things worked out this way, but I totally think its for the best. If someone can do a 360 like that on you and cant even communicate with you before he even has doubts about your relationship, then that person is not worth all this heartache for, and doesnt deserve to be your future husband.  I know it might hurt soon, but I think deep down you might just be relieved in a sense.

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@bluesgirl: Thats totally how I felt with my ex. It was like having a heavy weight lifted. Im sending you all the positive vibes I can. Maybe you should get together with a friend and hash out all the things that bothered you about him…cus Im guessing if you are feeling relieved, theres probably more than this to it.

Post # 8
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3297 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - An amazing non-profit retreat

I’m glad you feel relieved! Clearly it’s time for both of you to move on. Your Mr. Perfect is just around the corner now <3

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Oh my gosh, I’m so sorry! I don’t know your story either. Do you think he was seeing someone else before he broke up with you? An ex of mine did this to me and I found out through mutual friends that he was seeing someone behind my back. Whatever the reason, you are truly better off now. You will find someone deserving of you.

Post # 11
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2091 posts
Buzzing bee

I am so sorry 🙁 I broke off my engagement 3 weeks ago – if you need anyone to talk to, please feel free to PM me anytime.

 

Post # 12
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2385 posts
Buzzing bee

I’m sorry. Although you seem to be handling it well, it still has to suck really badly. 

Post # 14
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7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

I’m not sorry for you, because I think this might have been the best thing. It’s better to know now than to keep thinking that your relationship is moving forward. 

Post # 15
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493 posts
Helper bee

I’m so sorry this happened to you. I’m glad your taking it ok or at least knowing that it’s HIS LOSS

Post # 16
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858 posts
Busy bee

i’m sorry I hope it works out for the best for you. If he cant handle it when he does something that upsets you how in the world would he handle married life? run away from that too? If you do get back together please dont do it without him dealing with this issue. The last thing you want is for it to come up again later. Good luck 🙂

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