Post # 1
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Helper bee
We broke it off about 2-3 months ago. It boils down to the fact that he told me that he wasn’t ready. He wasn’t sure he would EVER be ready. Which is just fucking confusing when you tell me a week previous about how excited you were about proposing.
His mom wondered too, we had a talk. She said he was so excited and then all of a sudden we were broken up. She thinks his ex plays a factor into it. I’m over it.
Also found out he wasn’t fond of my son. That put the brakes on everything. So I’m gone. Single. Living life. I’ll be back bees, if I ever find another worthy of my time.<3
Good luck waiting bees.
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
@amallama: Sorry to hear that, but great that you seem to have a good attitude about it. Take care of yourself and your son, that is what matters most! 🙂
Post # 4
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Sugar bee
He sounded like he really WASN’T the right guy for you at all!
ENJOY YOURSELF, you foxy single lady!!! Good luck!!!
Post # 5
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Sugar bee
Hugs! I have a daughter and if my SO didn’t like her I’d dump him like a hot sack of poop. You did the right thing love! The right one IS out there for you!!!!
Post # 6
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Sugar bee
@amallama: Good for you. Sounds like you did the right thing!
Post # 7
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Sugar bee
@amallama: I’m sorry about your breakup, but I’m sure there’s someone out there who’s perfect for you and your son. Best of luck !
Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
@amallama: Sorry about the breakup, but you are right about everything. It sounds like he just wasn’t the one. Good luck!
Post # 9
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Worker bee
So sorry to hear this, but it sounds like it worked out for the best for you and your son. Keep your head held high, lady!
Post # 10
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Blushing bee
Sorry for your breakup. I have a child to and dating with children is so much more difficult, but there is someone out there for you perfect for you and your son. I had just about given up and thought I was being too picky when my SO and I got together and it has literally been the easiest transistion ever for my daughter, and I. We just fit. The right guy for you and your son will come along.
Post # 11
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Busy bee
@amallama: Sounds like you dodged a bullet! You will find someone who loves you AND your son.
Post # 12
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Bumble bee
@amallama: Good for you! it sounds like you made the right decision
Post # 13
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Helper bee
@amallama: oh, I hit pause at not fond of the son. That’s a deal breaker even if he was otherwise awesome and ready. sounds like you made a great choice!!!