To @LoveWillLightTheWay: I am sorry you are going thru this “love limbo” (( HUGS ))
I agree life is a lot easier when you have a Map and know where the road is headed…
Which is WHY I am a strong believer in a Woman having a LIFE PLAN & a TIMELINE that she shares with her man, and then she gets to hear his
I am sorry that you find yourself in a spot where he doesn’t seem to be able to provide that info to you
And this is a BIG BUT when it comes to me…
I do know that men are funny creatures… they do things on their own timetable and in their own way. And sometimes they are extremely hard to read… and they can be fairly secretive about something as big as a Proposal / Engagement
You wouldn’t be the first girl that has misread a man about an impending Proposal… or a guy has tried to set up a smoke screen
So, I would say…
Don’t take yourself off the list / out of the game, just yet
We are in the midst of “Engagement Season” (US Thanksgiving thru to Valentines)
I would say wait it out… sure it will be disappointing if he doesn’t propose in this timeframe… but it would be silly to take yourself out of the picture entirely if he truly has a Proposal in the works (might be shooting yourself in the foot so to speak… setting up for a misunderstanding where there is no turning back from)
So as crazy as it is… I’d say wait it out… these next 10 weeks.
Follow Mr Bee’s Plan (STICKY at the top of the Waiting Board)… and work solely on you and getting your own head in a good place… and a Long Term Plan for you.
Make these next 10 weeks ALL ABOUT YOU. Make your man your secondary priority.
Go out and buy the following 2 Books… to help you better realize the GODESS that you are… that some GREAT MAN DESERVES YOU (all the while learning exactly what it is you want out of life)
Dr Phil’s = Love Smart ~ Find The One You Want – Fix the one you got
Either of the 2 Books by Steve Harvey (lol or BOTH)
Act Like A Lady – Think Like A Man
Straight Talk, No Chaser
Do all this… and by the end of the 10 Weeks you’ll be a force to be reckoned with… a DYNAMO DIVA !!
He’d be stupid not to propose then…
Lol, and if he doesn’t you’ll be launching yourself into the world… lol, throw yourself a Premiere Party with your Girlfriends after Valentines in February…
Cause look out world… the AMAZING @LoveWillLightTheWay: is gonna LIGHT UP THE NIGHT… and Mr Right will have no problem finding his way to her !!