(Closed) Take me off the waiting list…we are done!

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
2006 posts
Buzzing bee

Best of luck to you!

Post # 5
1418 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I’m so sorry!  I am glad you have your answer though and while it will be difficult for a while, you will find the most wonderful man for you one day!  Best of luck sweetie!

Post # 6
8353 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

So sorry, but from what you have shared, I think you did the right thing. If it were me, I would find some boxes and pack up his stuff and then call him to come get it.

Post # 7
4547 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I’m sorry because I’m sure this must be tough! But congrats on standing up for yourself and I wish you the best of like in your life without him 🙂

Post # 8
5388 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Sorry, I wish the best. It seems like he has some issues to workout.

@noritake22: I agree!

Post # 11
445 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2009


Break-ups suck, even when they are 100% the right choice.

You are a very strong woman to make this decision in spite of your fears about money, etc. Good for you, and I have every confidence that you will not only survive but thrive. You may be sad at some point, but underneath it all you will have the serenity of knowing you did the right thing. That sort of childish behaviour – when all you did was try to instigate a serious discussion – is just disgraceful. Who needs an immature brat like that?

I will be praying for you!

Post # 12
1296 posts
Bumble bee

I’m glade that you realized that he was wasting you time and decided to move on.  I’m sorry about the way he acted toward you but I believe everything happens for a reason.  You will meet the man that you deserve one day and I wish you all the best.

Post # 13
1339 posts
Bumble bee

You are one smart cookie!  He did indeed tell you everything you needed to know….by not saying anything!!! 

Glad you stuck to your guns, that is SO HARD TO DO!  We are here for you every step of the way Zalonia! 

Post # 14
1154 posts
Bumble bee

The guys who think that every other guy is way worse and doesn’t treat girls well etc. … never the good guys.  No one who thinks he/she is god’s gift to the other gender actually is.

Post # 15
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I’m so sorry.  I hope you find happiness.

Post # 16
7053 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

Send him on a long errand and have his belongings out the door.  Also arrange to have the locks changed during that time too.

He did give you every bit of info you needed to know.  And him telling you that you are a bad mom because you disagreed with his own mother is worse imho.  How insensitive and jerky.

Instead of answering you honestly with either a yes I plan to marry you or no I am not, he deflected and got angry, blaming you for causing him discomfort.  Well sorry dude, our gal here has feelings and deserves 100 percent honesty Be good to yourself and make sure your kids and you come first.  Just guard the lives and hearts of the little ones and guard your heart too.

Only let in the future a man who isn’t afraid of having a plan!  Wishing you peace and comfort and so sorry he isn’t who he said he was.  You’re not alone.  I think probably the majority of women here have known committmentphobe men at one time or another. 


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