(Closed) Take the money and run or have a wedding?

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
2201 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

If i had to do it all over again (and if FH agreed with me) I would have taken the money and ran! Had a small JOP wedding with a small dinner at a local restaurant and saved the rest for a honeymoon and other stuff.

I think you should talk with your FH about what you both envision for your wedding. If he wants to go with the small wedding/save money route, then talk with your dad and let him know that you’ve elected to put the money to good use by paying off your debt instead of spending it on one day.

If FH wants the bigger event, then push all doubts aside, pull your budget together and book the venue you love.

Post # 4
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I am going to close this post because it is a duplicate.  There are other responses here.

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