Taking new boyfriend to close friend's wedding

posted 2 weeks ago in Relationships
Post # 16
422 posts
Helper bee

I agree that’s a big ask. I’m sure you’re excited to go since it’s YOUR friends wedding, but think about if this is something he would really want to do. Even just asking could make things weird between you two if he declines.

Post # 19
6605 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

aquamarine22 :  maybe it’s a big ask but there’s no harm in asking anyway. I’ll reiterate that the man I married came to my best friend’s wedding about 2 months after we met. He also met both my family and hers after flying US coast to coast.  A guy willing to ride to the occasion like that is a guy worth knowing (not to say he isn’t if he’s not ready yet!). Might as well see. 

Post # 20
224 posts
Helper bee

I’m glad you asked him! #YOLO. Let us know how he responds. 


Post # 21
6663 posts
Bee Keeper

A destination wedding is entirely another animal. If you are inviting him to join you are you covering the expenses (flights and hotel) for both of you? 

Post # 22
12117 posts
Sugar Beekeeper

beethree :   I agree that if she is determined to ask, the appropriate thing to do is cover his costs as her guest.  

Post # 24
4910 posts
Honey bee

aquamarine22 :  Yayyy have fun. A friend of mine asked to take someone they were seeing last minute to our wedding and they got married later! 

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