(Closed) Talk me off the edge!!!

posted 9 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
2588 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

Ask him when he wants to marry you. Seriously. You don’t need a ring–just a timeline and a commitment. If you’ve already agreed to do this and he’s letting you plan, you’re technically already engaged–proposal or not.

Post # 4
935 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

My understanding is that a lot of Bees plan with no ring yet. If your guy has agreed you’re getting married, and the venues are booking up quickly you do what you have to do. Who cares what the people at the bridal events think of you!

You can come to him and say “this venue has XX and XX dates open. Pick one”

Post # 5
199 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I’m starting to do the same thing and was worried about the no ring thing. I think you should go ahead and plan. Although I wouldn’t put any down payments on anything until you have a ring in case your dates change after the formal engagement

Post # 7
1893 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I did some stealthy planning while I was still waiting.  So long as your Boyfriend or Best Friend is comfortable with it and the two of you have agreed on a tentative date/season, I say go for it!

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