(Closed) Are you going to talk to FI on your wedding day before the ceremony?

posted 8 years ago in Photos/Videos
  • poll: Do you plan on talking to your fiance the day of the wedding?
    Yes : (88 votes)
    70 %
    No : (19 votes)
    15 %
    Undecided : (19 votes)
    15 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    4466 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    Nope.  I don’t want to be talking to him at all.  I figure I’ll be too busy getting ready anyway.

    Post # 4
    Hostess
    16215 posts
    Honey Beekeeper

    I have no idea yet!!! Good question! Sunshine…are you doing photos before or after the ceremony?

    Post # 5
    Member
    2475 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    Probably a bit over the phone early in the day.  I’m expecting to be a nervous wreck and he always helps to calm me down 🙂

    Post # 6
    Member
    14186 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    I think I sent him text messages like “we’re having yummies for breakfast. You should be jealous” or “i look hot. you’ll see”

    I kept it to a minimum cuz it was a girls’ fun day but I couldn’t help but send him a couple of messages. 

    I don’t believe in luck, though, but sometimes it’s fun to go with tradition.

    Post # 7
    Member
    6597 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I will have to talk to him! I think it is cute to have a couple of conversations or text msgs going back and forth!

    I want to share the whole day with him!

    Post # 9
    Member
    2634 posts
    Sugar bee

    Yep.  We’re doing a “first look” and taking as many photos as we can before the ceremony.

    Post # 10
    Member
    2058 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    Yes – – I will need to talk w/ him because he helps calm me down. We’re also doing first look pictures…

    Post # 11
    Member
    1854 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: December 2009

    We planned on sleeping in different rooms the night before, but couldn’t decide who would give up our suite to go sleep with our snoring parents… So we ended up seeing each other in the morning just to kiss goodbye and went our separate ways until just before the wedding.

    He was getting ready in our suite’s living room, and I in our room with my mom and friend, but we didn’t see or talk to each other even with the proximity – that was a very special moment…

    We really waited until the ceremony, when he watched me walk down the aisle with my father to see each other, and we don’t regret any part of it.

    I don’t think it has anything to do with luck either… just a personal choice!

    Post # 12
    Member
    2404 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    we may do a first look, so yes definitely. But even if we decide not to do the first look we will call each other in the morning! 🙂

    Post # 13
    Member
    2208 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    We’re taking pictures before hand, so I’m going to request a few moments with Fiance after the initial reveal.

    Post # 14
    Hostess
    16215 posts
    Honey Beekeeper

    We’re also doing the first look, but I don’t know when/if we’ll talk to each other before that.

    Post # 15
    Member
    1523 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    We plan to go our seperate ways after the rehearsal dinner and I don’t think I will talk to him until our first look reveal. I do think I will exchange some text messages with him the morning of when my girls and I are getting ready. I don’t see it as a supersitition/bad luck type thing, I just think the suspense and alone time with my girls will be important.

    Post # 16
    Member
    2207 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2009

    We slept together the night before the wedding, had breakfast together, talked several times up until our first look, and did photos for 3 hours before our ceremony.  Everyone is different though, our best friends didnt see or speak to eachother until they walked down the aisle, whatever makes you happy 🙂

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