Post # 1
So, I just have one but i have 11 piericings … I have not got anything new in those terms in about 4 years
I want another tattoo, though i am not sure what i want yet (tend to pick something and think about it for a year i had 5 tattoos i changed my mind on so i like that rule i glad i dont have 6 tattoos i love the 1 i have lol)
that being said, now i am engaged do you think i need to take my FH thoughts into account like if he hated tattoos and like tolorates the one i have b.c. its little (he never really expressed a like or dis like for tattoos or mine even he never even comment on it save for asking what it means)
So that being said would you talk a tattoo over with you partner or just get one…. on the flip side would you be upset if your SO came home with a tattoo and didn’t even ask your thoughts on it
~side note i only do small tattoos in places that can be hidden i think for me personally it’s b.c. the tattoo is for me not for the world it has to mean something and its for me not for everyone~
Post # 3
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Yeah I would be upset since I would assume that I didn’t know about it because it was an impulse decison and if it were an impulse decison he’d probably regret it ( I did lol).
Post # 4
@atreyu547: well i bad at getting them implusive i thought about the one i have now for over a year though when i got it it was random lol … i never thought of tattoos or pericings as a group choice lol but i guess it prob be a good idea to feel out what he thinks we are gonna be married so I am kinda sharing my body with him forever so he should like it too lol
Post # 5
I would completly take DH’s feelings into account. I have one tattoo that I got before I met Darling Husband. He is ok with it, as it’s part of me and it was there before he met me – but he hates tattoos as a general rule. He would certainly have opinions on it and it would need to a discussion
Post # 6
@Glasgowbound: ya i had never thought of another till lately, he never expressed a liking or dislikeing for tattoos …. he never even commented if he likes or dislikes mine … same with my piercings i think he likes them lol he never commented on them at all
the only thing he asked is what the tattoo means, but i guess b4 i think about even a lil one i should find out if he likes them or tororates mine b.c. its there and dosn’t say anyting b.c. it isnt going anyways lol
Post # 7
@Kissed_by_lightning: I discuss my tattoo ideas with Darling Husband. The only thing he has disapproved of is my octopusone, but it wasn’t too important to me so I just won’t get it. (He is creeped out by them.) He didn’t mind my idea to incorporate tentacles into another design though so it’s not too serious.
It’s my body, but he’s married to me and has to look at it every day. He loves tattoos, so he’s unlikely to “veto” much, but I’d always talk to him and get his opinions and ideas before getting one. (I have 3 now, want more.) I’d expect him to do the same but wouldn’t be mad if he just came home with one, so long as it was well done.