- 5 years ago
- Wedding: March 2014
Ok maybe I’m too laid back. I’m having a “rustic elegant” kind of wedding. My groomsmen are wearing dark jeans, ivory button downs, and boots with a linen vest. So I told my bridesmaids to pick a beige dress. I clarified length, and gave them inspiration.
So then I get a text from my Maid/Matron of Honor saying “Hope this okay for your wedding!…” and a picture attached with a picture of two brand new tattoos on her collar bone. One on the right and one on the left. Let me me clarify a little bit. My Maid/Matron of Honor and I got our very first tattoos together and therefore I have nothing against tattoos. My FIL’s are 100% against tattoos and even would prefer I cover mine up. (I have one on my back but is going to be covered by my dress) My only issue is that she didn’t bother to consult me before my wedding. I haven’t been restricting on anything but it would’ve been nice to have a heads up prior.
The day after that text, I get a phone call from my sister (also my bridesmaid) decided to tell me she got a monroe piercing and wanted to know if that was ok?… Am I just going crazy or do I have a right to feel frustrated?
I love them both but if I was part of a wedding and was thinking of a major change I’d consult the bride…IDK Who knows I may be crazy:P