(Closed) Tell me why youre marrying FI, tired of reading complaints!

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
3697 posts
Sugar bee

We also fall asleep holding hands! I love curling up next to him.

I love watching him laugh. I love just being in his presence.

I love what a good, gentle, honest, dedicated and sincere person he is.

I just want to be married to him. I don’t even really care all that much about the wedding. Don’t misunderstand – I’m looking forward to it, and it’s going to be fun and all, but deep down I kind of see it as an ordeal or an obstacle course we need to go through in order to win the “prize” of being married!

I started this thread a few weeks back, too, to talk about some of the little, quirky reasons why we love our FI’s:

"Little things" that make me happy I'm marrying my partner!

Post # 4
9950 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

I want to marry him because every day he makes me feel loved and safe.  

He reads me very well, he’s intuitive about me – If I’m upset or feeling “off” in any way he always knows, somehow, what to do or say to make things better. 

I feel as though I can talk to him about anything and everything, he’s my best friend. 

He’s gorgeous, sexy and an amazing lover.  I’ve never been with anyone any better. 

He’s funny, sweet and intelligent.  He’s kind and thoughtful. 

He’s successful in his career.

He’s kind to his mother and sisters. 

He’s a wonderful father to his son and a great friend to mine.

He is an honest person and I trust him with my life.

I am, quite simply, madly and passionately in love with him.  There are no adequate words.

Edit:  Just saw you requested small things he does, haha!  Forgot to put that –

I love how sometimes when I get up to pee at night, when I come back he reaches over and grabs me in his sleep and mumbles, “I’m glad you’re back, please don’t leave me,” as though he really noticed I was out of the bed for a minute even though he was sound asleep.  He never remembers doing this but I think it’s adorable.

Post # 5
1068 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

I pretty much sleep on top of my Fiance every night, and I love him for not complaining about it.

Yesterday I was giving him a BIG kiss, right in front of his office building. I said, “Oh no, should I not be kissing you where your co-workers can see?” He said, “Of course not.” I said, “But what will they think?” he said, “They will think that I adore you and love you so much!”

Post # 6
2216 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Fiance is my best friend.  I can tell him anything.  He loves me for who I am even with all of my quirks.  He brings out the best in me and makes me try things I’ve never tried before.  We have so much in common.  I love him!

Post # 7
2447 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

My Fiance is more hipster than I am. Laughing

A man that grew up going to Coachella, has friends that build teepees in their LA backyards, and can guess every Jeopardy question before me is a man that I want to marry. Did I mention he’s charming and witty and always keeps me on my toes?

Post # 8
150 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2005

That’s cute =]

I want to marry him because my life is much brighter with him.
He makes me feel loved and is incredibly romantic.
He always makes me laugh and we have a great time together. 

I adore everything about him. 

Post # 9
8882 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

He’s sweet, funny and romantic.  Most of all he’s my best friend <3

Post # 10
7339 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

He’s got the best sense of humour ever

He cuddles with me at night and I love it.

He’s my cuddle bear

He’s a genuine person, he will protect everyone around him

He’s kind and makes me feel all warm and fuzzy everytime we talk or hug or kiss.

He’s the best!

Post # 11
7647 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

Sense of humor, trustworthy, honest, good provider, absolutely loves affection and compliements

And not only did he hit my car on our 4th day of dating, but I spent a half an hour pulling over 100 cactus needles out of his butt 9 months after we were dating because he sat in a cactus. He sort of owes me lol 😉 I love that man.

Post # 12
5977 posts
Bee Keeper

This is a little off topic b/c we are already married, but here is something that made me realize I married the right man…

We went through a pretty awful TTC process before I got pregnant. During my first miscarriage, he took care of me like I never thought I could be taken care of. He listened to me cry, held me and coped with me while my hormones leveled out from the miscarriage. He even took me on vacation to the Bahamas to get my mind off of things. Everything he did throughout that entire process made me love him that much more.

And now that I am pregnant, he’s so protective of me and helps me any chance he gets. He went out and bought a daddy to be book to read up about pregnancy and helping your wife through it. I seriously love that man.

Post # 13
2854 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

He’s the only man I’ve ever felt I can be truly, fully myself with, without fear of judgement or rejection.

When I see him and it’s a surprise (we’ve been together 5 years, not much is surprising anymore), like if I’m out picking parts up for work and I drive past his shop and he’s standing outside, my heart skips and my stomach flips. I had never experienced that feeling before him. I’m the idiot-girl honking the horn and waving at him while I pull over to steal a quick kiss.

I’ve never been a touchy-feely person, but I want to touch him constantly. If we’re in a social circumstance that involves mingling, I have to check in with him…even if it’s just to walk past and touch his hand. I need to be near him.

He is just about the sweetest man I’ve ever met, even though to others he might appear as gruff and scary (he’s 6’4″ and really well-built). He tells me he loves me more than 10 times a day, and he always tells me I look pretty – even when I KNOW I don’t.

He brags about me. I know this sounds ridiculous, but when I see his friends and co-workers they sometimes mention things I’ve done/achieved, and I realize he’s been singing my praises to other MEN! It makes me feel amazing to know that we share a love that he feels is worth sharing with others.

When I watch him play with/talk to/be with our puppy, I see the father he’ll be one day, and he reminds me of my own. I was blessed with a wonderful father, and Fiance is the only man I’ve ever met who has reached that high of a standard in my eyes where he could be compared with my dad….and he’s the only man who ever even came CLOSE to that, never mind ACHIEVING it.

He just amazes me constantly. He’s so loving, and caring. He’s protective and loyal. He has very defined morals, and they match my own. We share a very similar outlook on life and the world. We hate all the same things! And at the end of the day, crawling into bed beside him is my absolute favorite thing in the world.


Post # 14
7339 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@2PeasinaPod:  Awwww that’s soooo sweet!

Post # 15
1724 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

He tells me he loves me all the time. He set a reminder on his iphone that says “my fiance is beautiful” 🙂 he reads relationship books with me because he knows it means a lot to me

Post # 16
1309 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

He’s amazingly kind and honest. I feel so comfortable around him and he is really my equal in every way. We are so similar it’s eery sometimes.

He is also the best father to our daughter and is very stable and caring.

We can talk about everything and anything and he gets me.

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