(Closed) tell me your fear!!!!!

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
873 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

since we are flying in from far away (as are 80% of people coming to the wedding), that there will be some freak august storm – a foiled terrorist attack that has planes being rerouted – or some other travel disaster!  i want everyone to safely get to the wedding!!!

Post # 4
5263 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

Eek, the tooth one is scary! 

I’m really afraid that I’ll stress and put on weight. My body really reacts to stress in that I can change nothing that I’m eating, and put on about 5 pounds, which is a lot on my 5′ frame! I’d hate to not fit into the dress because of that. 

I’m also really afraid that family will throw a fit/create drama about something, or that someone will do something stupid/get hurt in the city. A lot of my family is very afraid of being in the city, and our the neighborhood our venue is in is a warehouse district. Somehow it’s the people that are terrified that have the bad experiences – I think because it’s obvious they’re scared and unsure. I’m worried that they’ll park really far away thinking it’s a good spot, or something, when they don’t have to because there’s lots of free parking close. 

Post # 5
5670 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

I know it never would happen, but I do have a fear that he won’t show. I would be devastated.

Post # 6
348 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

I fear that people wont have fun on our wedding day. WE are doing destination wedding to Jamaica. Me and Fh dont dance, and our guest list is only 30 with mostly family and a few friends, none of which dance. I am so scared that no one will have fun.

Post # 7
402 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Oh.. now I’m freaked out about the tooth thing too!

But my biggest fear is that I won’t lose any weight. I’ve been trying and I am freaking out that (the amount I want to lose) just will not come off by then.

Post # 8
520 posts
Busy bee

Bad hair ~ too short bangs

Post # 10
6597 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

I am afraid that I will be a bridezilla on the week of the wedding. Sometimes I get bitchy when I have a lot of people in my space and there will be a lot of people staying with us before the wedding. AHHHHH I Get stressed just thinking about it!

Post # 11
96 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

LOL at the tooth! Just be VERY careful and don’t eat any Jolly Ranchers! 😉

Mine would be feeling like I don’t look pretty in any of the photos when I see them afterward.

Post # 12
208 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

So this is going to sound a little intense, but I am afaid of a guest or family member getting in an accident before or after the wedding! We have a lot of people driving a long distence for our rural wedding and I really hope everyone makes it there and back safe!

Another smaller (sweeter) fear is that my mom and dad will make me bawl the whole time they are escorting me down the aisle. I have a feeling we will have a big love fest and end up sobbing in front of our guests 🙂

Post # 13
2634 posts
Sugar bee

For some reason I have a lot of fears as of late (if you had asked me a month ago I’d have had like two!).

That my bio dad (who I’ve completely severed ties with) will show up (this is fear #1).

That I’ll have a HUGE pimple.

That all I’ll do is cry through the whole day thus making my pics look TERRIBLE.

That it’ll rain (outside ceremony and NO back up location!).

That we’ll have a lot of no shows.

That I’ll be so stressed out the whole day that I won’t enjoy it.


Post # 14
2404 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

i’m a worry-wort. Here are my main fears:

• I’ll get sick the morning of (like stomach flu, seasonal flu, sinus cold )

• Logistics (vendors/bridal party/guests won’t be somewhere where & when they need to be.

• The music (band and dj) will be too loud for our venue.

• Guests won’t have fun, dance, mingle.


theres more where those came from but i’ll stop there and spare you all Wink

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