(Closed) Telling grandma about our destination wedding

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
Member
4824 posts
Honey bee

I would make a special visit to tell her. There is not “way” to tell her other than be nice, respectful and honest. And I would do it in person if you at all cal. If not, then a phone call would suffice and tell her.

I wouldnt assume she couldnt go and dont tell her you think that. I would go ahead with the presumption she plans to come. It is her choice after all to come or not and its OK. 

Post # 4
Member
85 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

OH well is what I have to say about her, truly OH WELL.  Invite her, she can come or not, if she is unable to come she wont, if its not of interest to her she wont.

OF COURSE ITS UNCOMFORTABLE she raised a boy who behaved badly.  None of which is your responsibility.  You have more than done your part.  Send her an invite just like you would if it were in her back yard, she can read, she will see its a Destination Wedding.

You cant fix what you didnt cause.  Talk to someone if you think you might have unresolved feelings about your walk out dad, you cant mend it this way.  Nor is it your job sweetie.  Enjoy Disney and feel like a princess!

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