Post # 16
I would tell both parents at the same time. My mom has the world’s biggest mouth too- we told her when I was 5 weeks along, and I was absolutely SHOCKED she didn’t spill the beans until after we give her the ok at 13 or 14 weeks. Honestly, I loved being able to go to my mom for advise during my early pregnancy and have her for comfort (first trimester is HARD).
Post # 17
We didn’t tell parents at the. same time. Everyone survived.
Post # 18
We both told our parents the day after we found out. I annouced publically at 9w. It is up to you – but I couldn’t keep a secret. My LO is now 9mo.
Post # 19
After telling Mother-In-Law that we weren’t ready to tell everyone yet, she waited about 2 weeks and put it on Facebook. I hadn’t even had a chance to personally tell some of my family members (I was waiting to tell them in person when we traveled back to my home town). When confronted, she told us that we’d waited long enough. Yeah… She’ll be finding out much later this time. I’m tempted to just let her find out via facebook like she made some of my family members do, but I’m trying to not be too passive agressive.