Post # 1
I’ve been tossing around ideas on what to get my BMs and I thought about getting them each gold clutches (they are all going to be wearing gold shoes at the wedding) and I thought it would be cute to get them a gold purse that matches their style and thought that going the gold route would be safer then buying them random color purses.
So now I’m thinking, should I tell them that I am getting them a purse ahead of time? I really think there is a good chance that a few of them will go out a buy a gold purse to match their gold shoes, so thats why I’m contemplating telling them ahead of time….what do ya’ll think? Does this ruin the surprise, or is it the smart thing to do?
Post # 3
i think it’s fine to tell them, they’ll still have the surprise of what the purse actually looks like. i let my girls know that i’m getting their necklaces so they wouldn’t go out and buy some.
Post # 4
I think it’s a smart thing to do and for me at least, I always like to anticipate presents 🙂
Post # 5
I also let my girls know I’m buying jewelry so they wouldn’t go out and get some..so it’s still a surprise b/c they don’t know what you are getting them or what color or what design.
Post # 6
Thanks ladies! Thats true, the surprise will the purse itself and they will have no idea what each one looks like 🙂