(Closed) Telling the guests what to wear: advice, please!

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Would you be offended if I added that bit to the FAQ?
    Not at all. I think it's a very nice way to answer their questions. : (21 votes)
    81 %
    I would change it slightly (and I'll tell you how in a comment). : (2 votes)
    8 %
    I would absolutely be offended. Don't add anything. : (3 votes)
    12 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    7587 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    @GreenEyedMoon: Tell them what to wear. It’s important. Plus all of those woman who want to see their men in tuxes will have the correct amunition to make them dress up! 

    Post # 4
    Member
    14495 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I would like it as a guest if you added that last part.  I am always looking for a reason to pull out some of those great dresses that I have. 

    Post # 5
    Member
    266 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    yea tell them what to wear…were it black tie, you’d include that!

    Post # 6
    Member
    233 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: February 2012

    I actually think it’s very important and appropriate to tell guests how formal your wedding is.  I would stick to the traditional phrases… black tie, black tie optional, semi formal, casual etc.  That way everyone can interpret it how they’d like with a general guideline.

    I wanted to have a masqurade or carnival type dress-up as well since our wedding will be around Mardi Gras, but alas the fiance didn’t like that!  

    Post # 7
    Member
    1944 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2009

    Definitely. First those not extremely close to you, may or may not fully know how formal your wedding will be especially with the masqurade theme. I would put it first, before the description of your theme. As a guest, I always appreciate knowing the formality of a wedding.

    The topic ‘Telling the guests what to wear: advice, please!’ is closed to new replies.

    Find Amazing Vendors