(Closed) Thank god for the bee! Horrible day!! how much can you take on one day!

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Newbee

Awwww I’m sorry this is happening to you 🙁

I’m not suggesting that your SO is a bad guy, but based on this post it sounds like he’s taking you for granted.  It’s the WORST feeling in the world! Plus, it doesnt sound like he’s at a very mature stage in his life (mom takes care of him, lack of helping you, buys guns, etc). I think you need to decide if this is the kind of life you want for yourself.  Trust me; as someone who has been there, the things that you are resenting him for right now wont just magically change.  I know it sounds cliche, but focus on you! Seriously! It’s not easy, but just stop caring/doting/working so hard on the relationship and see how he reacts. Really only two things can come from that; he either realizes that your slipping away and perhaps will realize how much he’s been taking you for granted or nothing changes and then you’ll know what to do. You sound like a dedicated, giving, loyal and hard working person. You deserve that to be reciporated.

ps. I say you splurge on something for yourself if you can 😉 go on a trip, buy some amazing shoes, or a nice piece of jewellery! Heck, if he can spend tons of money on toys, you deserve to get what you want too. 

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