- 1 week ago
I’m having trouble navigating this website such as replying to everyone’s posts efficiently. So I just wanted to say thank you so much to everyone for your encouragement and words of wisdom!
My fiance wants to have a ceremony before God so I won’t be eloping.
I do have anxiety, not rude, just hit the nail on the head.
My “reception” will be in a rented room at a restaurant and will include cake and the traditional first dances but no DJ, as dancing drives my anxiety through the roof.
The attendees at the wedding will include about 12 people as the wedding party, so that’s about 18 guests in the chapel pews.
Everyone is right that I should focus on my husband and our marriage, and perhaps the nerves about having an “audience” will fade away.
Also “Bill” does have a right to enjoy his friends, which is another reason why I’m not eloping.
Thank you again everyone!