- 6 years ago
- Wedding: September 2012
So, I finally got all my thank you cards written and mailed out! YAY!! At work one day last week, I was thinking about one of my girlfriends who had come to the wedding, and suddenly I couldn’t remember if I’d written her card or not. When I got home, I checked the list my husband and I made as we opened cards and gifts, tracking everything down, and we were very careful to get it all right. Her name wasn’t on the list. I asked my husband if he remembered what she had got us, and we couldn’t recall. SO I checked all the cards, hoping it would spark a memory, and didn’t find one from her.
I’m so stressed about what to do! I am pretty sure we didn’t lose it, as we were very careful. But I’m also pretty sure she didn’t come to our wedding without even a card! I don’t know what to write in her thank you card…thank you for celebrating our big day with us? BUt if she got us a gift that we missed she may be like…Nice of them to acknowledge my gift!! I don’t want to offend her! But if I write a generic thank you for your generous gift…and she didn’t get us one that could be bad too! Do I ask her? But then if she didn’t get us a gift, that could be super weird too….
I don’t care about the gift…but help! What do I do? Any advice?