(Closed) Thank you card etiquette question…

posted 9 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
1344 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012 - Franklin Plaza

Well, I’m not sure what proper etiquette is on this one, but for gift baskets I received my thank you card read something like this:

Dear Aunt Janice,

Thank you so much for the beautiful gift basket. I especially love the cutting board and casserole dish. And I can’t wait to use the cook book to whip up some new recipes in the kitchen! 

I wouldn’t list every single thing the basket, just make mention of a few items and how you can’t wait to use them in your home. Hope that helps!

Post # 4
1375 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@Mrs. Coyote:  +1 – I would mention the basket and then pick out a couple of items in particular to say how you are going to use them/how much those are just the PERFECT gift.

Post # 5
2560 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@occhimusicali:  I would be more general.. do mention the gift basket, and maybe one thing you’re really excited about using, but you don’t have to detail everything inside of it! When I receive cash, I always thank them for the generous and thoughtful gift.. generic but it’s technically true… 

Post # 6
131 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@Mrs. Coyote:  I agree. Pick a few items to mention specifically, don’t list them all. It’s assumed that you’ll use the measuring cups and wooden spoons, so mention some of the non-generic or more unique items like a cook book.

Post # 8
1781 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

OP, just wanted to say that you rock for getting those thank you cards out ASAP!  I’m always sad when I see people trying to get out of writing them.

Post # 9
2265 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@occhimusicali:  No, you don’t have to list every item but I do think its nice to include a comment that says why you love or how you will use the gift.    As in, “thank you so much for the wonderful basket of kitchen items, I can’t wait to use everything!   You can mention something about particular items as well such as, “the placemats and towels are the perfect colors for the house” or, “I’m going to try the recipe for (whatever) from the cookbook this weekend!”

The important thing is to show your gratitude and appreciation but its not necessary to list every single item. 

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